Curious, I googled this to see if it was something commonly felt and there were dozens of articles repeating the exact same things over and over again. In response, I wrote a short post of my own that outlined my views on dating. Some people loved it, some hated it, and one even accused me of preying on chronically depressed people. Like Therapist Dracula or something. Why do people find dating so hard? So I adopted the tree pose, did some navel-gazing, and settled on something approaching an opinion.
7 Ways We Make Dating Way Harder Than It Should Be
9 Reasons This Generation Is Having So Much Trouble Finding True Love
Am I being authentic? Should I lie a bit to raise my attractiveness? Should I be less selective rather than hyper-selective to open up the field for the random meeting that becomes something wonderful? There is no chemistry information. And often I am swiping right on a whim, a cute hit, or a smile. I will often swipe right Tinder and Bumble without looking at more than the first photo.
Why Dating Is So Hard For Those Of Us Who Want Something Real
Some people find it easy to fall in love, others not so much. We tend to fall in love with people who meet a certain criteria in our mind. This subconscious criterion is based on our past experiences, relationship with our parents or events that have happened in our lives.
Come visit the IRC Channel! Please read before reporting a link or comment. Why is dating so hard these days? Genuinely curious what your experiences have been, and how it relates to your work and finances and where you're at in life. Why have so many people given up?