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What gives a first online date every chance of turning into a second?
Ask Dr. Nerdlove: Should I Give Him A Second Chance?
I went to a ball with a gal that lives 2 hours away from me. We hit it off and got along really well. The next day we made out a little bit but nothing to serious. After she left I sent a text to see if she got home ok and then again on Monday. After my text messages we talked on the phone and over the course of the first part of that week we continued this texting and talking regularly. She then stopped responding.
What Happened When I Gave My Dates A Second Chance, And Why I'm Done With It
When we have parted ways, I have found myself wondering if I will ever hear from them again. They rarely do. To my shock, I had TWO guys circle back around earlier this year. The timing was out-of-a-movie for the first one.
I promised myself that I would never try online dating. I told myself how pathetic it was and how shitty I felt about meeting someone online. I felt desperate and stupid in the eyes of others as well as myself.