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A plus-size dating coach says attraction is less about weight than we think
Overweight and Dating? 6 Ways to Find Love Without Settling
If the second half of the twentieth century was marked by thinness sometimes even painful , then in the new millennium, the pleasurable fullness became for women, if not an ideal, then at least a norm. Today, in a trend is not to follow the ideas invented by someone else, but rather to understand and appreciate your own individuality, both spiritual and physical. Now the plus-size girls are the usual characters on the podium, on the pages of fashion magazines and overweight dating sites. In society, there is a stereotype that female overweight is bad. This opinion is imposed on both women and men by insidious representatives of the fashion industry, dictating their rules to people. Unfortunately, as a result, we observe that plus-size single women start to feel shy, disassociate. Some of them give their body a torture in the form of diets.
3 Tips for Dating When You're Overweight
I am friends with other fat women. None of us have a hard time getting dates, finding love , or sex, whatever it is we happen to be looking for. But while that's true, all of the fat women in my life have at least one story of men explaining to them that they could never date because of her fatness. It's never easy to be rejected for any reason, but fat women get used to it in t heir interactions with men sadly because it seems to be more socially acceptable to express disgust with fat than it is express other complaints about a person's physical appearance. It isn't bad at all.
The Denver Post once cited a survey that found women were most afraid of meeting a serial killer online, while men were most scared of meeting someone who was secretly fat. Why would OkCupid or Tinder be any different? Each time I filled out a profile, or matched with someone new, I had to clarify what has always been the most important piece of my appearance — that I am definitely, certainly, fat. I used to believe that if I never acknowledged my weight, people wouldn't notice that I was fat.