Who is present for every single bar dalliance; privy to the romantic, to the profane, to the highs and lows of love? A friend of mine, in fact, was married by the very bartender who witnessed her relationship evolve from flirtatious drinking buddies to husband and wife. Finding a great bar is easy, but having the perfect drinks-date can devolve into a regular comedy of errors. Bartenders see and hear it all. Here is their advice on how to have a great night at the bar on your first date, last date, and every heart shake, ache, and break in between.
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We exchanged phone numbers and made plans to meet. Paul and I texted back and forth over the next week or so, eventually putting some time on the calendar to get to know each other without Mookie yanking me with his leash. Our first date attempt fell through when my phone died the night before, leaving me unable to confirm our coffee. But our second attempt stuck, and we planned to meet at a restaurant downtown in a few days. And then, the night before we were set to go out, I got a text message that has become eerily familiar. The air immediately went out of my sails.
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I will help you decide if you're with the right person and support you through creating a happy relationship. But if you're in a bad, toxic, or abusive relationship I'll hep you recognize how it's wrong for you and support you to get out and feel good about it. Dating is hard. It's so rare to connect with someone; then turning it into a lasting relationship is even harder.
I am a 28 year-old single woman living in Manhattan. Although life in NYC has treated me very well so far in many areas, and I am really enjoying my time here, I have really been striking out dating-wise. Before moving here, I was a preschool teacher in St. Louis and always had a lot of success dating, whether with people I met online or otherwise.