Paddy is in love. There are times [when our relationship] has plummeted to the depths whereby we were both ready to give up. A flicker of joy and recognition. The person they knew and love is still there, somewhere deep down inside. Those moments are what the person longs for. Still, to Paddy, it is worth it.
Why No Contact (NC) is Necessary After a BPD Breakup
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Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD)
However, if you have any desire to move on after a breakup with someone suffering from Borderline Personality Disorder BPD , you must go no contact. You must protect your own mental health. What is NC or No Contact? No contact means to cut all contact with a person, to remove every trace of them from your life via zero communication. It does sound harsh, and perhaps it is, but chances are this breakup and the relationship itself have left you a physical and emotional mess.
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