My first question is whether or not he is out to his wife? I don't recommend dating or moving forward in a relationship with a heterosexually married gay man HMGM unless he has an open, totally above-board agreement with his wife. IE he isn't out to her then to avoid deception and heartache I suggest avoiding him and walking the other way. Otherwise, you'll only cause harm and pain - not just for you and your HMGM, but for his wife and family too.
Never-Married Men Over 40: Date-able or Debate-able?
Married with 2 kids but im gay and living a lie
I repeatedly receive questions from agitated wives who feel traumatized when they learn that their husband is homosexual. The length of their marriages range from a few years to 20 and 30 years together. Many have children, of differing ages, with their husbands. Always, this is met with shock, despair and betrayal.
'I'm a gay man but married a woman'
Do you want to chat and socialise in a confidential environment with other men in a similar situation to you? I was with my wife for around eight years and whilst always knowing there was something different about my sexual orientation, I just tried to ignore it in the hope that it would go away. But it never really went away, not if I'm honest. I just became a lost person and buried myself in work. Eventually I started feeling quite down.
For months, the pair had been fighting more and more. Jim had been distracted, their relationship was increasingly strained. It was at the climax of one of their arguments that the truth came tumbling out. Around the world, many gay men are married to women. Twice a month they gather for two hours to share stories.