I have given my fair share of mixed signals to men over the years, for various reasons. Guys, you know the feeling: Why do women do that? Is she really into you, or is she playing you?
Why There’s No Point In Being With Somebody Who Blows Hot & Cold
Why do guys blow hot and cold with girls? - 1000canaries.com Forums
We are really fragile, and if the guy act "hot" we get really nervous and hard to get "Cold" stupid so you fight more for us and when you get discouraged we act "hot" and it goes on and on till someone make a move! I've done it to appear non clingy if I like a guy. Plus it's been a way for me to protect myself from player type guys. I'm not saying it's right and I don't want to play games, but I do it none the less. See if you catch her looking at you when she thinks you can't see her. If she does then she likes you.
Why Women Act Hot and Cold: 7 Reasons Why She Is Suddenly Ignoring You
A woman acting hot and cold means that she shows interest one minute and then appears to lose interest the next. One of the most important principles of success with women is to not worry about their changing behavior and just remain confident in your attractiveness and value to them the whole time. What he meant by that is this: Love her and let her be a woman. Just relax, be a man and love her.
Up until I had my epiphany seven years ago, about unavailable relationships and in particular my own unavailability, I was convinced that I had a special skill that made available men unavailable. Blowing hot and cold is never a good sign and it is in fact a code red alert because you can never trust in this person enough to know what to expect from them. With all of this jiggering around with the hot and cold, you may think you still have something going on the hallmarks but your relationship will not have the landmarks. This is unhealthy and demeaning. The person who blows hot and cold thrives on control and equates feeling out of control with desire.