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She might also hear the same phrase if she happens to reject a South Asian man romantically, even if race has not played a part in her decision. And, why are black people used by Asian men who are unable to grapple with rejection or criticism thrown their way? To them, the woman is airing her dirty laundry internal community discussion is expected to stay internal. I find that behaviour disgusting.
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I grew up in a small town in the 90's, where I was the only non-white girl in my class at school and my skin colour was a curiosity rather than a threat. There was no racial tension, but then again, no sense of black community. There were quite literally no black people at all. When people asked me about my ethnicity, I would often just mumble something about tanning easily and change the subject, and I brushed off racist slurs like any other insult.
Social Issues. I grew up around a lot of white people. I was one of the few black people in my primary school, my secondary schools and college. University is difficult because there were so many people — but out of the 35 musicians on my course, I was most definitely the only black person until third year. When you see and interact with that many white people on a daily basis you inevitably start feeling out of place: