I hope you will answer my question, I need your precious advice too. I am torn. Attraction is the big X Factor in any relationship. Which would seem to indicate that you should break up with your boyfriend. Not so fast. I urge you to consider this before taking any rash steps.
Is It OK To Date Someone You're Not Attracted To?
I Know I Should Go For Nice Guys But I'm Just Not Attracted To Them
By Dr. Seth Meyers. Dating Dos and Don'ts. In other words, the people you have been drawn to or attracted to have not been the kinds of people who will give you what you need. The point is that men and women who came from dysfunctional homes and then later had a drama-filled relationship or two get stuck following a dysfunctional blueprint, falling for romantic partners who are not good for them. If this sounds like you, you are probably looking if only unconsciously for types who have similar personalities to some of the dysfunctional people from your past, and you gravitate toward that because you are comfortable with that type of person.
Would You Date A Guy You Weren't Really Attracted To?
My sister did! Well, let me clarify: They met on an online dating site and really hit it off. But there was only one problem.
It's about the choice to show up and be real. The choice to be honest. The choice to let our true selves be seen. It is not often where we find someone who makes you laugh, you have a lot of common with and you enjoy being around. When you do fine someone like this, but you don't feel attracted to him, this can become confusing.