I got an email from a concerned virgin: He was unsure whether or not he should move forward in a relationship with someone who had a sexual history. Maybe you find yourself in a similar situation when it comes to sexual purity: They discuss their relationship under the public spotlight including some of their personal hang-ups and hardships and the effects of premarital sexuality on their marriage.
Should a Christian date or marry someone who is not a virgin?
Should a Christian date or marry someone who is not a virgin? | 1000canaries.com
I just found out that my boyfriend of almost two years had a sexual relationship with a girl about two years before we met. He said it only happened once, and he then ended the relationship and confessed his sin. He told me this because we are planning to get engaged, and he wanted me to know so that I would have the opportunity to end the relationship. I have no desire to break up with him — I feel he is the man God has for me to marry. However, I am freaking out over the fact that he has been with someone else.
My boyfriend is not a virgin. What should I do?
I know how you feel, because I was a virgin on my wedding day, but my wife was not. Like the woman you mentioned, my wife had become a new creation. But it was still a painful challenge to deal with the knowledge of her past.
After I heard the news, I needed time to process it. I needed time to pray. After a lot of prayer and discussion, I came to the conclusion that I was willing and able to move forward in the relationship.